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Old 09-09-2019, 01:06 PM   #21
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well I feel better about my daughter binge watching Gordon Ramsey.
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Old 09-09-2019, 01:44 PM   #22
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Man that's a crappy situation...sorry to hear.

Did she ever try to call yall or anything?
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Old 09-09-2019, 02:03 PM   #23
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Man that's a crappy situation...sorry to hear.

Did she ever try to call yall or anything?


Thatís the part that really sucks. She called my wife from one of the girls phones and we never heard it because my wifeís ringer was off. She NEVER turns her ringer off but it was off that night so we never heard the phone ringing until around 4:30 AM and my wife noticed the missed calls.
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Old 09-09-2019, 03:52 PM   #24
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That sucks. Having kids and dealing with other parents is definitely bananas. I haven't had to deal with sleepovers yet, but group sports so far suck goat nuts.
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Old 09-09-2019, 03:53 PM   #25
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That sucks. Having kids and dealing with other parents is definitely bananas. I haven't had to deal with sleepovers yet, but group sports so far suck goat nuts.
Your kids already have a lot working against them with a dad like you.
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Old 09-09-2019, 04:15 PM   #26
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Your kids already have a lot working against them with a dad like you.
1v1 me
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Old 09-09-2019, 08:01 PM   #27
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Sorry to read this story. Sadly the damage is done and there is no good way to go back or address it with the questionable parents. I would sit down with your daughter and ask her if there is anything she wants to talk about, and tell her you are sorry she was exposed to all that in one sitting. My daughter also watches Sofia, and I shudder to think how bad all that would've been, but she is about to turn 6. I'm definitely going to ask lots of questions for sleepovers now.

Some people..... and then they are parents? Sad.
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Old 09-09-2019, 08:17 PM   #28
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Thatís the part that really sucks. She called my wife from one of the girls phones and we never heard it because my wifeís ringer was off. She NEVER turns her ringer off but it was off that night so we never heard the phone ringing until around 4:30 AM and my wife noticed the missed calls.
Damn that's heartbreaking. I'd be pretty pissed at the mom...no one in their right kind would think thats a good idea.
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Old 09-09-2019, 08:54 PM   #29
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Sorry to read this story. Sadly the damage is done and there is no good way to go back or address it with the questionable parents. I would sit down with your daughter and ask her if there is anything she wants to talk about, and tell her you are sorry she was exposed to all that in one sitting. My daughter also watches Sofia, and I shudder to think how bad all that would've been, but she is about to turn 6. I'm definitely going to ask lots of questions for sleepovers now.

Some people..... and then they are parents? Sad.
I do feel like we'll end up discussing it in detail with the mom at some point. She obviously has no clue that she did any damage to these little girls. I'm guessing we aren't the only parents dealing with the ramifications of those movies being shown at the slumber party.

My wife has been talking to our 9 YO regularly since she came home early Sunday morning. She's still following us around like a puppy dog - I was singing songs to my 2YO boy a bedtime tonight and my 9 YO was in the room with me, literally hovering over us and holding my hand. She's still afraid to be in a room by herself. She's sleeping next to my wife on the couch again tonight. We should be able get her back in her bedroom shared with her 4 YO sister within a few days, or we'll set up pallets in one room and let 3-4 of the kids (I have 5 kids) all do a sleepover for a few nights so she's surrounded by her brothers and sisters.

Hopefully my posting this will alert some of you guys that have young kids. I think several of us go into stuff like this assuming people would show our kids the same understanding or grace or whatever as we do and that's obviously not the case.
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Old 09-09-2019, 09:04 PM   #30
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Watched Child's Play when I was 5.

Fight me.
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Old 09-09-2019, 10:30 PM   #31
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Watched Child's Play when I was 5.

Fight me.
Considering my 9 YO daughter is now an expert on dismembering people, I'll send her to handle the lightweight.
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Old 09-09-2019, 10:47 PM   #32
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Considering my 9 YO daughter is now an expert on dismembering people, I'll send her to handle the lightweight.
i'll take that bet, and even make it dealers choice of bounce house hulk gloves boxing, or bumper cars with air bags racing.
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Considering my 9 YO daughter is now an expert on dismembering people, I'll send her to handle the lightweight.
Make the fight take place in any place with height requirements and they won't even let Magnus in.
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1v1 me
Paper, rock, scissors. Sudden death. None of that two out of three bullshit.

I'll even tell you that I'm going to throw rock.
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Old 09-10-2019, 09:41 AM   #35
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Paper, rock, scissors. Sudden death. None of that two out of three bullshit.

I'll even tell you that I'm going to throw rock.
I don't want to admit how many times I looked at "1v1 me" and had no clue WTF he was saying.

And it's rock, paper, scissors.
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Old 09-10-2019, 09:53 AM   #36
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Considering my 9 YO daughter is now an expert on dismembering people, I'll send her to handle the lightweight.
This made me lol.


Sorry to hear about your situation. I can't imagine having to deal with that.
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Old 09-10-2019, 10:06 AM   #37
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Considering I am surrounded by Mormons in my hood, and even though we are Christian, we are the heathens on the block. I like that.
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Old 09-10-2019, 10:22 PM   #38
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You may want to plan a daddy daughter date night and take her to a favorite place. She may tell you things she won't share with mom. It’ll also give her my dad will take care of and protect me vibes. She might like that right now. I know my daughter loves daddy daughter times.
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Old 09-11-2019, 09:08 AM   #39
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I don't want to admit how many times I looked at "1v1 me" and had no clue WTF he was saying.

And it's rock, paper, scissors.
I'm pretty sure he wanted some fisticuffs, but for his children's sake, I reduced it to paper, rock, scissors.
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