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Old 06-13-2018, 09:36 AM   #21
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Weird. Did she try and represent herself the first go around? Usually if a spouse cheats that's a free ticket for custody and child support.
In Texas, I thought that wasn't grounds; at least for divorce.
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Old 06-13-2018, 09:48 AM   #22
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Not at all, I have never been married much less divorced.

I am a keen observer of the world around me and normally hear these kind of stories from men.

FYI for any of you broads that are posting here or reading this; Texas Family Courts could give a shit if your man was sticking his dick in someone else while the two of you were together.
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Old 06-13-2018, 10:00 AM   #23
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Probably not many broads on here other than magnus and naynay.
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Old 06-13-2018, 10:03 AM   #24
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Probably not many broads on here other than magnus and naynay.
You misspelled bitches.
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Old 06-13-2018, 10:06 AM   #25
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Probably not many broads on here other than magnus and naynay.
Speaking of Naynay, does anyone know if his wife cheated on him with a white guy or a black guy? Do black guys get as pissed about their old ladies cheating on them with a white dude as white dudes get pissed about their old lady cheating with a black dude?
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Old 06-13-2018, 10:33 AM   #26
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Alimony? Hardly. She's a single mom forced to pay child support to her ex and his new wife.

She's definitely not some drunk/methhead/shithead/otherhead. She's an accountant, they have a kid, he cheated on her, they got divorced. Don't know all the details of the first round, but along the way she got a chance to do some contract work on the side to make more money. Her ex and his new attorney/wife decided to take her W9/1099 wages from a year of that temporary contracting and use it as the basis to argue that she was making so much money that he needed her support. Somehow they won that appeal.

And as with all contracting gigs, when it's up it's up. She doesn't have that income anymore, but the judge didn't care that it would not be a permanent thing.

She is not allowed to live anywhere other than Melissa ISD (population 4,700) lest she lose more custody, the housing situation in Melissa is less than ideal, and there are hardly any apartments there. Per the ruling, she's also not allowed to have a roommate, and she must live in dwelling with at least a 2 bedrooms - which she can't afford on her own due to him sucking on her wallet - so she's had to move back in with her parents. She's also required to pay for their son's medical insurance, dental insurance, etc.


Good enough?


Sounds like what hundreds of men go through in divorces...especially in Texas. Good for the ex husband.

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Old 06-13-2018, 10:37 AM   #27
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It is only on very rare occasion in my experience that the male gets the child unless there are other issues.
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It is only on very rare occasion in my experience that the male gets the child unless there are other issues.
My buddy is a Jamaican guy with dreadlocks and he has custody of his kid, the mom is white.
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In Texas, I thought that wasn't grounds; at least for divorce.
I believe you are correct, unless the kid was "abandoned" during a booty call:
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Old 06-13-2018, 12:22 PM   #30
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It is only on very rare occasion in my experience that the male gets the child unless there are other issues.
it's getting more common, as is 50/50 custody with no child support.
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Old 06-13-2018, 12:30 PM   #31
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it's getting more common, as is 50/50 custody with no child support.
Shit, maybe I need to drag the ex back to court and get this deal.
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Sorry to hear that Matt.

My wife hired a guy who was pretty much a pitbull in family law. His name is James (Jim) Stephenson but he moved to Decatur shortly after she hired him. I donít know if he can work in that area or not but it might be worth a phone call his phone number is 877-731-8683

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Old 06-13-2018, 12:36 PM   #33
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Shit, maybe I need to drag the ex back to court and get this deal.
It really is good for both parties, if you break it down and think about it. Equal time with the kids, equal time with both parents for the kids. If you have them every other week, neither parent needs the other to pay support, each provides half.
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It really is good for both parties, if you break it down and think about it. Equal time with the kids, equal time with both parents for the kids. If you have them every other week, neither parent needs the other to pay support, each provides half.
I agree, I see my kids more than the allotted time at my daughters softball games and the such, and pay a gang of CS. May look into this...would benefit me more than her.
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Old 06-13-2018, 07:26 PM   #35
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Was she having to pay child support from the start? If so, and she took a side gig for extra money, did she not report that? If not, I could see why the court did not look at that favorably.
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My mom was Kevin Fuller's first client out of law school, I used him when I fought for custody. I believe him and his firm to be the best in DFW.....
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Sorry to say that yes, all of that is very standard as far as orders go. Non custodial parent is responsible for 100% medical, dental, etc in addition to child support. Neither parent can move out of a bordering county but I've seen many times where a specific school district is named. She didn't report additional income, that's on her. Even if she did report it, it's income, therefore he gets his cut. The fact that the extra income isn't available anymore is irrelevant. She needs to get a second job. As someone else mentioned, him cheating has zero bearing on the way custody is viewed (nor should it). The 2 bedroom dwelling is also state law. You have to provide a bedroom for the child. I'm not saying she's not getting jerked around by the ex, but she is being treated exactly as fathers have been treated by Texas Family Courts for decades. That's just the truth.
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The fact that the extra income isn't available anymore is irrelevant. She needs to get a second job.
Huh? That doesn't make sense to me at all, if it's a percentage of income, and the income drops, then the child support should also drop accordingly. What if the paying parent loses their good job in a shitty market, and can't find something that pays near the same? Or they have a sales job and commission is abysmal for a couple budgets? That person is meant to suffer, and be worse off than the deadbeat that's living off the tit?
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Huh? That doesn't make sense to me at all, if it's a percentage of income, and the income drops, then the child support should also drop accordingly. What if the paying parent loses their good job in a shitty market, and can't find something that pays near the same? Or they have a sales job and commission is abysmal for a couple budgets? That person is meant to suffer, and be worse off than the deadbeat that's living off the tit?

Usually averaged out for a certain period. It sucks that they chose that period of her pay but it happens
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Huh? That doesn't make sense to me at all, if it's a percentage of income, and the income drops, then the child support should also drop accordingly. What if the paying parent loses their good job in a shitty market, and can't find something that pays near the same? Or they have a sales job and commission is abysmal for a couple budgets? That person is meant to suffer, and be worse off than the deadbeat that's living off the tit?
I donít know how it works for commission pay. But Iím pretty sure youíre up shit creek. She can request a hearing, but itís up to the judge. Or she can request a review through CSRP (attorney general), but there is no guarantee it will be lowered. Itís all circumstantial.
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