Need some cheering up guys, cuz im lost!

[bcoop]

What kills me is how cold she is. I mean, she hates me. I miss being that cocky asshole that used to not give a shit. I would have been balls deep in some honey and not thinking twice about it. But it is different now. Tried to be a good man for her, but just wasnt good enough I guess.

If she doesn't give a shit, then neither should you.

Now go get some pussy. Quickly. And a lot of it. And for the love of God, leave it alone this time.

What kills me is how cold she is. I mean, she hates me. I miss being that cocky asshole that used to not give a shit. I would have been balls deep in some honey and not thinking twice about it. But it is different now. Tried to be a good man for her, but just wasnt good enough I guess.

Try to be a good man for yourself now. It's a process. It won't come over night. You WILL stand up and hold your head up high, and be walking around like this planet was solely invented for you to walk it. Ask me how I know. Wake up in the morning and tell yourself, "Today, zero fucks will be given." Do something you want to do, start rebuilding that confidence a brick at a time. It won't take as long as you think. Get the divorce done and over with as quickly as possible.

[propellerhead]

well, an 80yr old dude would probably have similar words for you! LOL

Exactly where I was going with it.

[Jester]

What kills me is how cold she is. I mean, she hates me. I miss being that cocky asshole that used to not give a shit. I would have been balls deep in some honey and not thinking twice about it. But it is different now. Tried to be a good man for her, but just wasnt good enough I guess.

I've actually been contemplating something like this as well. Just taking a road trip in my car somewhere.

It is VERY helpful. I haven't felt this good in years. I bumped into my supervisors supervisor the day after I got back at a restaurant, and he told my boss he was shocked at how together I had everything after what had happened. My productivity at work has skyrocketed since May, and I'm hoping the next 6 months brings another promotion.

[bjtheman1]

This is the type of thing you suddenly have time for when you're recently divorced.

http://www.dfwmustangs.net/forums/sh...&referrerid=38

I've actually been contemplating something like this as well. Just taking a road trip in my car somewhere.

This is the type of thing you suddenly have time for when you're recently divorced.

http://www.dfwmustangs.net/forums/showthread.php?t=11152&referrerid=38

[bjtheman1]

I know how you feel, I was with my wife for 7 years and this past year she decided to leave. I'm still distraught but I won't let it ruin my life, no kids so it's easier in a way but still hurts each day. I'm 31, but this is a second chance for me to live my life. Over the past 5 months I've went sky diving, hit up Vegas for the first time, and just a week or so ago got back from a 10-day vacation with 4 buddies in Asia.

I won't lie, I would trade it all back to being with my wife again but it is what it is. Can't look to the past just live in the present.

I'm planning alot more things in my life, I made a bucket list and plan on doing as many of the things on it as possible.

Find the positives, that's what I did and move on.

[SS Junk]

Best advice yet...

[Cooter]

I would tell them to eat a huge diseased dick and then unfold the story of how my life has slowly and miserably fallen apart no matter what i did to prevent it and that at 17 you can still be anything you want to be. You have no kids, no real job or financial worries, you are not stuck in a dead end job because of the bad decisions you made when you were there age, and then feed them my dirty oil covered dingdong! lol

well, an 80yr old dude would probably have similar words for you! LOL

I would tell them to eat a huge diseased dick and then unfold the story of how my life has slowly and miserably fallen apart no matter what i did to prevent it and that at 17 you can still be anything you want to be. You have no kids, no real job or financial worries, you are not stuck in a dead end job because of the bad decisions you made when you were there age, and then feed them my dirty oil covered dingdong! lol

While I know my recent situation is a little different because I don't have the burden of children, there is no such thing as too old to start over. I mean, you're already doing it. You could go eat a bullet, and prove me wrong, but for what? Some worthless bitch that didn't even have the balls to face you about it, and ran away while you were out of town? Fuck her. You're going to stand back up again and you're going to find new joys in life, and you're going to be looking in that rearview mirror a year from now asking yourself what the fuck you were thinking, and why did you put up with it for so long. You're going to have more free time, more money, you're going to be driving a car you like and be balls deep in the hobbies you've neglected, maybe finally get that 56 Chevy on the road, and you're going to be loving every bit of it.

[Cooter]

fuck it, there was a reason you sabotaged it in the past...

enjoy your knew life!

don't let that bottle kill you. God made more than one woman, I promise you

[ARIX]

Found a new calling? Dirty Ding Dong feeder.

[trblshooter]

Stings for sure...one idea/concept has really given me comfort when that shit happened to me, in the end does it really fucking matter? Have fun dude don't stress over things you can't control...other people and their actions first. You can dwell on it beat yourself up whatever but the root cause has nothing to do with you.

[Jester]

Think about the 17 year olds who think it's the end of the world because their daddy didn't buy them the cool car they wanted. What would you say to them?

I would tell them to eat a huge diseased dick and then unfold the story of how my life has slowly and miserably fallen apart no matter what i did to prevent it and that at 17 you can still be anything you want to be. You have no kids, no real job or financial worries, you are not stuck in a dead end job because of the bad decisions you made when you were there age, and then feed them my dirty oil covered dingdong! lol