How to deal with harassment from a police officer?

[00bolt]

Okay, to clear up a few things...

im 34 years old, she is the same.

He did mention he was a police officer, but wasnt dressed in uniform when he showed up at my work.

He may have gotten my phone number from her and may have even known the name of the business I work for, but neither he nor she knew the address of where I worked nor my home address (he hasnt shown up there that I know of, but in a voicemail said he would) and neither of them knew my ex wife's employment for sure as she just started there recently.

He hasnt come out and said he would hurt me or anything like that as far as threatening. But he did say things like you dont want me showing up at your house, etc... and i have multiple times told him to not contact me ever again... then he did, and has taken it to the next level of contacting my ex wife. Who knows who he may go to next...

i told him the same thing, you should be confronting your wife, not me. I was nice enough to tell him everything and he still keeps going and going.

[Frank]

Pree fost!

[Gtracer]

He's going after the guy because if he beats up his wife and gets a domestic violence arrest/conviction, he cannot have a firearm and cannot work in law enforcement.

Calling it now....this will be an epic thread.

I mean, how often does Dave come out and play anymore...lol

[Chili]

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Only 3 for me..

[davbrucas]

He's going after the guy because if he beats up his wife and gets a domestic violence arrest/conviction, he cannot have a firearm and cannot work in law enforcement.

[95DRGT]

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[Chili]

You know what I meant, asshole! lol

What, that you have no game?

[racrguy]

Yes.

You know what I meant, asshole! lol

[Snatch Napkin]

So now women are mindless and can be talked into taking every dick on the block.

Yes.

[Country cracker]

Welcome to thunderdome bitch
2 man enter 1 baby comes out

[bcoop]

Yes, but if you actually care and love the person you are with, most people want to believe it is the other person initiating it, even if it might not be.

This is like 5 year old kids fighting. "He started it. Nuh-uh, he did!" Very juvenile IMO. Caring for and loving her has nothing to do with it. If she did cheat, then again, what does it matter who started what? The black and white of it is that she (assuming here) fucked another dude. At the very least, she wanted to fuck another dude. Badly. So even if he initiated, she still spread her legs willingly. Again, his problem needs to be with his wife, and not anyone else.

He may know his wife is a whore, but wants to believe it is this guy doing it.

If that is the case, then that is his problem and not anyone else's. Just because your life is in shambles doesn't mean you drag others down with you.

I understand why someone may want to go after the guy in the situation, because I have seen it time and time again.

I don't. It makes no logical sense. Your wife fucks someone else, and it's somehow the guy's fault? No. "Takes two to tango" is bullshit in this case. If you're ever in this situation, your woman is the problem, not the dude.

Nothing good ever comes out of flirting over texts or banging a married chick.

I've never had anything bad come from banging a married chick, in fact, some damn good sex can come from it. But I'm not a complete idiot, either.

[stephen4785]

See, I dont get why guys get all uppity with other guys when they find out their wife is a whore. She's fucking around on you, and it doesnt matter who the guy is, if she wants some dick, she's going to go find some. He needs to dump her ass and not worry about the bullshit.

X2
Iv had girlfriends cheat on me and that's the attitude I took. Although I think it changes if you're friends with the guy(not the case here).

[Machx2]

I wouldn't say nothing good comes out of it....

Well if he didn't hit it, which he says he didn't, then nothing good came out of it unless he got nudes, which he needs to post if so.

[racrguy]

Yes, but if you actually care and love the person you are with, most people want to believe it is the other person initiating it, even if it might not be. He may know his wife is a whore, but wants to believe it is this guy doing it. I understand why someone may want to go after the guy in the situation, because I have seen it time and time again. Nothing good ever comes out of flirting over texts or banging a married chick.

So now women are mindless and can be talked into taking every dick on the block.

[Ruffdaddy]

Yes, but if you actually care and love the person you are with, most people want to believe it is the other person initiating it, even if it might not be. He may know his wife is a whore, but wants to believe it is this guy doing it. I understand why someone may want to go after the guy in the situation, because I have seen it time and time again. Nothing good ever comes out of flirting over texts or banging a married chick.

I wouldn't say nothing good comes out of it....