Anyone helped a battered woman before? - Page 2

mardyn · 07-22-2015, 09:28 AM

Extricate yourself and your family from the situation asap.

It is a loosing battle and you're already the bad guy... get away NOW!

mardyn

Ruffdaddy · 07-22-2015, 09:34 AM

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Originally Posted by big_tiger

I would do this for any chick I know... Shit even a guy. Lol I took in my best friends dog because when he moved he lost his backyard.

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Your judgement is clouded, and youre not the right person to fix this. Step away dude.

lowthreeohz · 07-22-2015, 09:51 AM

She's gonna drag you down if you're lucky, get you killeded if you're not.

big_tiger · 07-22-2015, 09:53 AM

Judgement of what? Helping someone that asked for it? It wasn't my idea to have her move out asap. It was my idea to let her move her shit in my house, but that's because options were limited.
Like others have said the only person that can fix it is her, but she needs people that will support her right?

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Juiced4v · 07-22-2015, 09:55 AM

They always go back

paul_376 · 07-22-2015, 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by dee

That's fucking strange.

I know right, I always thought it was thong thursday not monday.

46Tbird · 07-22-2015, 10:25 AM

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Originally Posted by big_tiger

Yeah... about that. We dated about a year ago, but it never went anywhere. We would be best friends if I wasn't attracted to her physically, so we stopped talking a few times. I am dating someone else, and I am not going to mess that up for the girl in trouble. They have met, and both have made fun of me on my preference in women.... Asian.

<<< Surprise I know.

You are out of your fucking mind.

This situation is already bad for everyone involved. If you want peace and solace, get her out of your house immediately and forget about her forever.

Frank · 07-22-2015, 11:53 AM

Dead solid advice from several here. Been there too where we helped a couple of different women out. We drove them to the Genesis shelter and just maintained moral support. Fortunately both of them were wise enough they moved on with their lives and didn't go back to their abusive husbands.

Your little head will think for your big head whether you think so or not and will keep you in denial.

Baron Von Crowder · 07-22-2015, 11:54 AM

have you tried hitting her?

mustang_revival · 07-22-2015, 11:55 AM

run bro

Ruffdaddy · 07-22-2015, 11:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by big_tiger

Judgement of what? Helping someone that asked for it? It wasn't my idea to have her move out asap. It was my idea to let her move her shit in my house, but that's because options were limited.
Like others have said the only person that can fix it is her, but she needs people that will support her right?

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See man even this response here says youre trying to rarionalize what youre doing...knowing its a bad situation.

Everyone has already said it better than me...so i wont beat a dead horse here.

FunFordCobra · 07-22-2015, 12:24 PM

Cray bitches be cray. They will drag YOU TO HELL WITH THEM!!

90MarkVII · 07-22-2015, 12:26 PM

Run, don't walk.
Life is too short to put up with that kind of bullshit drama.
She needs professional help and he needs to take himself out of the gene pool, neither of which you should be a part of.

71chevellejohn · 07-22-2015, 12:35 PM

Pics?

cool cat · 07-22-2015, 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Baron Von Crowder

have you tried hitting her?

That might work. Hit her to let her know that going back to the abuser is a bad idea.

Rreemo · 07-22-2015, 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Baron Von Crowder

have you tried hitting her?

I know it's wrong, but I laughed my ass off at this comment.

On a more serious note....went through the same thing with my sister-in-law. She is married to an extremely abuse asshole, mostly mental abuse but also the occasional physical tune-up. We tried to help her numerous times, and she always ran back to him. I think it becomes almost like what they say about a dog....it's about the attention, they want it even if it's bad attention, and they miss it when it's gone. The stories I can tell about shit this guy did would blow your mind. He was a real piece of work....he bullied everyone in her family including their Dad and Brother. Broke into our house when we had her come stay one night after a fight with him. He found out real quick that shit wasn't going to fly with me....the only person I've ever pulled a gun on and came very close to executing.

In the end, though, her situation worked itself out....he had a debilitating stroke some years back, now lives in a nursing home and has the mental capacity of a 5-year old. She's still married to him and visits regularly.

Chili · 07-22-2015, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by cool cat

That might work. Hit her to let her know that going back to the abuser is a bad idea.

I was going to say that it would never work, cause then she would just keep coming back to the OP..

Sleeper · 07-22-2015, 01:31 PM

If she wanted to leave she would leave. If she does move on they typically go right to another pos and the cycle continues. Much like a addict.

Goku025 · 07-22-2015, 02:49 PM

Pro88LX · 07-22-2015, 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by 71chevellejohn

Pics?

it seriously took until post #34 to ask for these? Jesus people!

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Baron Von Crowder asshole with an opinion VIP Member Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Venus Posts: 23,993	have you tried hitting her? __________________ "If I asked people what they wanted, they would have said faster horses." - Henry Ford

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07-22-2015, 09:28 AM	#21
mardyn Lifer Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 4,345	Extricate yourself and your family from the situation asap. It is a loosing battle and you're already the bad guy... get away NOW! mardyn

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lowthreeohz comment removed Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 27,843	She's gonna drag you down if you're lucky, get you killeded if you're not.

07-22-2015, 09:53 AM	#24
big_tiger Thread Killer Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: DFW Posts: 5,613	Judgement of what? Helping someone that asked for it? It wasn't my idea to have her move out asap. It was my idea to let her move her shit in my house, but that's because options were limited. Like others have said the only person that can fix it is her, but she needs people that will support her right? Sent from my HTC One_M8 using Tapatalk

07-22-2015, 11:53 AM	#28
Frank Lifer Join Date: Jun 2001 Posts: 11,455	Dead solid advice from several here. Been there too where we helped a couple of different women out. We drove them to the Genesis shelter and just maintained moral support. Fortunately both of them were wise enough they moved on with their lives and didn't go back to their abusive husbands. Your little head will think for your big head whether you think so or not and will keep you in denial.

07-22-2015, 12:26 PM	#33
90MarkVII Time Served Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 747	Run, don't walk. Life is too short to put up with that kind of bullshit drama. She needs professional help and he needs to take himself out of the gene pool, neither of which you should be a part of.

07-22-2015, 12:35 PM	#34
71chevellejohn my Maserati does 185 Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Arizona Bay. Posts: 21,597	Pics? __________________ .

07-22-2015, 01:31 PM	#38
Sleeper cheesecake Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 10,953	If she wanted to leave she would leave. If she does move on they typically go right to another pos and the cycle continues. Much like a addict.

07-22-2015, 02:49 PM	#39
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