"Oh, and I have a kid"

[Snatch Napkin]

I couldn't imagine having a kid now. I like my sleep way too much, the older I get.

Could you imagine how wound up I would have been 10 years ago with kids?


The amount of patience I have now is incredible at 32. It makes raising kids a cake walk.

[Treasure Chest]

Could you imagine how wound up I would have been 10 years ago with kids?


The amount of patience I have now is incredible at 32. It makes raising kids a cake walk.

Yeah, I couldn't see you raising kids 10 years ago, but I couldn't see you raising a baby now. The ready made family situation is really your best option. Lol

[Big A]

I'm 34 myself, and no longer consider having a child as a problem. If we click, and she wants atleast one more, it might work. My step-dad was a great influence in my life from early teens on, so that helps my point of view.

At 22 and in college though, the answer was quite different.

[Smurfette]

I'm 34 myself, and no longer consider having a child as a problem. If we click, and she wants atleast one more, it might work. My step-dad was a great influence in my life from early teens on, so that helps my point of view.

At 22 and in college though, the answer was quite different.

Very well said.


Priorities are so different between the age span of 22 and 32...


When you are 22 all you worry about is getting laid, having fun and starting your career..nothing wrong with that. Enjoy it while you can.


At 32 you have some more "experience" under your belt and realize the world doesn't revolve around you.


I was a single mom with 2 kids...never brought a a guy around my kids that wasn't serious and I certainly wouldn't mention it in a bar. I can only imagine the reaction to "I have kids and one happens to be disabled." Boobs can only get you so far..

To the op: Kids are more than "fuck tokens" and one day you will grow up and realize this..for now stick with the 18 year olds. They have more energy anyway




I have alot of respect for men that understand that just because a woman has the "baggage" of children doesn't mean she should be tossed aside. I have kids ..doesn't mean I am lookin for a daddy..they have one and he is very active in their lives..just means my priorities are greater than getting drunk and going home with strangers that I meet in bars.


Unless he is black from the waist down..then all bets are off :P

[talisman]

It's always refreshing hearing about how if a guy isn't interested in a chick that has used her cooter as a parking garage for the city bus route, that the man is irresponsible and immature. Fantastic logic!

[Smurfette]

It's always refreshing hearing about how if a guy isn't interested in a chick that has used her cooter as a parking garage for the city bus route, that the man is irresponsible and immature. Fantastic logic!

Kinda like the logic that says a guy that screws everything under the sun is a stud but the chick that does is a slut?


To each his own..if you dont want to park your bus in a garage..there are plenty of guys who will...the garage is shaded and keeps you out of the elements..


the ones that park there probably have more money and drive a better car....LOL



Just saying...

[YALE]

Wow! that was a bitch move just saying...

I hear ya. I just wasn't ready to hear him say, "I love you," after dating his mom for a little over a week.

[talisman]

Kinda like the logic that says a guy that screws everything under the sun is a stud but the chick that does is a slut?


To each his own..if you dont want to park your bus in a garage..there are plenty of guys who will...the garage is shaded and keeps you out of the elements..


the ones that park there probably have more money and drive a better car....LOL
fucking with you...

One argument at a time, Sherlock.

[Unicorn Jeff]

I hear ya. I just wasn't ready to hear him say, "I love you," after dating his mom for a little over a week.

Fuck yeah man i would of done the samething but in a different way.

[Smurfette]

One argument at a time, Sherlock.

Come on watson..you are always the brains behind everything!

[idrivea4banger]

I hear ya. I just wasn't ready to hear him say, "I love you," after dating his mom for a little over a week.

After a week the kid said that?!?! Mom most have told him you were his new daddy.

[talisman]

Come on watson..you are always the brains behind everything!

Which is why I was able to immediately point out your reaching flawed reasoning.

[71chevellejohn]

Kinda like the logic that says a guy that screws everything under the sun is a stud but the chick that does is a slut?


To each his own..if you dont want to park your bus in a garage..there are plenty of guys who will...the garage is shaded and keeps you out of the elements..


the ones that park there probably have more money and drive a better car....LOL



Just saying...

But isn't that true?

[Smurfette]

Which is why I was able to immediately point out your reaching flawed reasoning.

"reaching flawed reasoning?"


Hmmmm..ok. You either fit in the too young to know better category or the "I am all alone and i don't know why"...


I haven't been here long enough to know which..


Just because you think it's flawed...opinions are like assholes...everyone has one..and I gave my opinion. Fire at will...


I will laugh either way. Although if you were Dan Bishop I would laugh more..

[Smurfette]

But isn't that true?

Depends on who you ask..some guys like the sluts...they can teach...


LMFAO