Inheritance

[DON SVO]

It's worth nothing. There is nothing that can be done, you have to let it go.

[YALE]

More to the point, if she's just jealous of her sister getting something, and her not, and she's raising hell over it, you need to tell her to chill the fuck out, and back her parents.

[SEB]

Dude, if she's going to let money come between her and family, and this isn't some sentimental deal, then you don't need to do shit. Is it fair? No, but if her not getting the house doesn't hurt her financially, what difference does it make? The house is still in the family, and she's allowed to buy her own house.

The house is being sold. Not being kept in the family. My understanding is the sister is to pay the 20k loan back to her parents & she gets the remaining money from the sale of teh house

I dont think Adrian & I need the money & to be honest its worth it to me to lose her half just to have that card over her family when they get in a bad spot again down the road. But its tearing her apart inside cause she LOVES HER Family & she just crys about it.

[jw33]

Lawyer up and drag it through the court system is always an option. The $1500 will come in handy in a few years plus your Christmas/birthday gift list will be much shorter.

[YALE]

Dude, she should let it go. It's just money. Fuck having a card to play against them later. Family comes first.

[2165 Turbo Rail]

unless we are talking about a huge amount of money, I'd just say OK and forget about it and know that when they need money you can tell them know, when they need to borrow a truck you can say no you should have bought one with the money etc

[Sean88gt]

Cut your losses and move on. I'm realizing family, especially inlaws, aren't worth the fucking time they consume.

[2165 Turbo Rail]

and ya'll are saying family comes first.. but the other side of the family isn't seeing it this way obviously or they would split the profit

[SEB]

Dude, she should let it go. It's just money. Fuck having a card to play against them later. Family comes first.

I agree & dis agree. The sister sits on food stamps & gets the goverment to pay for anything and everything she can. She had all her windows replaced & roof & new water heater replaced free of charge cause she qualified for it. She is exactly what you guys are always bitching about. Adrian is opposite. She spent 4 years in school busting her ass to get her degree & she feels like her sister gets all the handouts while she works her ass off. I get it & why she feels the way she does.

The mother has been on disabilty her whole life & hasnt worked in 30 years. They mouch off the goverment everyway they can & Adrian is already pissed at people who do mouch off the goverment cause its her tax dollars paying for it. They take out right at $600+ every two weeks from her check while she works 12 hours shifts at the hospital in Oncology

[ceyko]

and ya'll are saying family comes first.. but the other side of the family isn't seeing it this way obviously or they would split the profit

I don't know you, so I don't know if you know - but taking the high road sucks - even if the other side does not.

Being the nice/good guy blows, but the alternative is ever more retarded. Although, I get why people sssnnnnapp

[YALE]

I agree & dis agree. The sister sits on food stamps & gets the goverment to pay for anything and everything she can. She had all her windows replaced & roof & new water heater replaced free of charge cause she qualified for it. She is exactly what you guys are always bitching about. Adrian is opposite. She spent 4 years in school busting her ass to get her degree & she feels like her sister gets all the handouts while she works her ass off. I get it & why she feels the way she does.

The mother has been on disabilty her whole life & hasnt worked in 30 years. They mouch off the goverment everyway they can & Adrian is already pissed at people who do mouch off the goverment cause its her tax dollars paying for it. They take out right at $600+ every two weeks from her check while she works 12 hours shifts at the hospital in Oncology

None of what the sister is getting has to do with y'all, bro. Just let it be. If they're being shitty to you, then put them out of your life, but don't let your girl heap misery on herself, because that's all that will come of this.

[SEB]

None of what the sister is getting has to do with y'all, bro. Just let it be. If they're being shitty to you, then put them out of your life, but don't let your girl heap misery on herself, because that's all that will come of this.

Sounds like you been down this road or just good at cutting your losses

[ceyko]

I agree & dis agree. The sister sits on food stamps & gets the goverment to pay for anything and everything she can. She had all her windows replaced & roof & new water heater replaced free of charge cause she qualified for it. She is exactly what you guys are always bitching about. Adrian is opposite. She spent 4 years in school busting her ass to get her degree & she feels like her sister gets all the handouts while she works her ass off. I get it & why she feels the way she does.

The mother has been on disabilty her whole life & hasnt worked in 30 years. They mouch off the goverment everyway they can & Adrian is already pissed at people who do mouch off the goverment cause its her tax dollars paying for it. They take out right at $600+ every two weeks from her check while she works 12 hours shifts at the hospital in Oncology

Oh, one of those. The parents seem f'ed up if they don't reward your girl with something for her effort. Parenting is a little different than governing, but at the end of the day - if there is a pay out from a legacy it should be equally divided -in my opinion. Although, sometimes there ain't nothing you can do about it and raising all sorts of hell up front does not good. There is a place for passive aggressive actions and this maybe one of them.

[2165 Turbo Rail]

I don't know you, so I don't know if you know - but taking the high road sucks - even if the other side does not.

Being the nice/good guy blows, but the alternative is ever more retarded. Although, I get why people sssnnnnapp

I totally understand it, but of course I don't know the dynamic of the family either

if this were the case with my and my sisters I'd just kill them and eliminate the problem lol jk

[EW]

I agree & dis agree. The sister sits on food stamps & gets the taxpayers to pay for anything and everything she can. She had all her windows replaced & roof & new water heater replaced free of charge cause she qualified for it. She is exactly what you guys are always bitching about. Adrian is opposite. She spent 4 years in school busting her ass to get her degree & she feels like her sister gets all the handouts while she works her ass off. I get it & why she feels the way she does.

The mother has been on disabilty her whole life & hasnt worked in 30 years. They mouch off the goverment everyway they can & Adrian is already pissed at people who do mouch off the taxpayers cause its her tax dollars paying for it. They take out right at $600+ every two weeks from her check while she works 12 hours shifts at the hospital in Oncology

Fixed.
Forget about it and just distance from them. Win-Win.