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[gonzo]

You've definitely been in the hooch. Anyways, where to begin? You say not having kids is fucking awesome. I've been on that side and yeah, it was awesome, but no where near as awesome as it is now. There is indeed a ton of cool shit to do in the world and I had 33 years to do whatever I wanted before having children. Its not like that stops forever when you have kids. Priorities just change a bit for a few years until they are old enough for you to pick it back up and start doing all that cool shit with them and seeing the world through their eyes. It's so much cooler now and there is so much to do and share, the possibilities are endless and the life experience and the memories are priceless.

There are positives every single day. Even more so for those of us that are true "parents" and you know who you are when you read this sentence. There are rewards every day in raising another human being to be an honest, genuine, loving, intelligent, proud, respectful individual. Every day is special.

You know as well as anyone that I don't get out and do a whole lot on my own. That's by choice. It's nothing against my friends or anything like that. I like hanging out from time to time, but I love being with my son. I want to spend as much time with him as possible.

I'll agree that society isn't exactly roses, and I wish some things were different. My job is to raise my children to be above the bullshit in the world and to teach them to make the most of and treasure their time on this earth.

Kids aren't for everyone and there's no guarantee that decides if you're a kid person or not. I will say that there are too many people out there that are having kids that are not parent material, resulting in some of the fucked up things you don't like about society. Real parents seem to becoming fewer and further between and we need as many good people on our side as possible.

You're an intelligent person and would have a lot to offer a child if that ever came to be. Ultimately, it's for you to figure out which path to take. Either way, both will be pretty fucking cool.

I agree with this. It is our job to help slow down the process of the idiocracy by any means necessary...

[MattB]

I don't think it's been mentioned, but having kids completely destroys your girl's axe wound....

[SS Junk]

I don't think it's been mentioned, but having kids completely destroys your girl's axe wound....

Depends on how said kid was delivered.

[MattB]

Depends on how said kid was delivered.

True. C-section scar > wrecked vag

[Leah]

I don't think it's been mentioned, but having kids completely destroys your girl's axe wound....

Depends on how said kid was delivered.

This. I've had 2 kids, but they were both c - section so no need to add an extra stitch here. ;-)

[mustangguy289]

And I could definitely use someone to mow my yard. I'm still looking for answers slightly above slave labor though!

Hooked up with any hispanic women lately?

[SSMAN]

This. I've had 2 kids, but they were both c - section so no need to add an extra stitch here. ;-)

I don't care what anyone says, once you have a kid, it just does not fit the same.

[MattB]

I don't care what anyone says, once you have a kid, it just does not fit the same.

truf

[bcoop]

I don't care what anyone says, once you have a kid, it just does not fit the same.

False.

[ELVIS]

my schweenis is so small i wouldnt be able to tell the difference.

god bless.

[downshift_me]

False.

I'll second this.

I love my kids despite never wanting any. Regardless, I'm raising human beings and not inconveniences. I know my daughter is going to be sheer hell, because she's a mini-me, but my parents survived and so will I. Now, her father is a different story on the surviving part. My son is a total blast and acts just like my brother and were best friends. My kids love cars, guns, sports, etc so we have a lot of fun. I'll be late 30's once they're gone on their own so I can still fully live life sans kids. I don't regret them just the decisions that brought them here and their dad's not a bad guy just screwed up circumstances.

[bcoop]

I'll second this.

While I appreciate the agreeance, you're a woman, so your opinion is biased.

[Scott Mc]

All boxes are different, but through my findings post kid models can take more of a beating.

[Mike]

While I appreciate the agreeance, you're a woman, so your opinion is biased.

lmgdao

[downshift_me]

While I appreciate the agreeance, you're a woman, so your opinion is biased.

Hey! I've gone all Inspector Gadget down there and have accurate findings!!