Juvenile question.

[91CoupeMike]

15 year old goes to the park? That's your problem.

[Craizie]

repeat after me.....

"I cant stop your take off, but i'll damn sure crash your landing"

once that marinates in his prepubescent brain for a bit he will realize you are the real OG of the household.

god bless.

That's pretty clever.

[ELVIS]

repeat after me.....

"I cant stop your take off, but i'll damn sure crash your landing"

once that marinates in his prepubescent brain for a bit he will realize you are the real OG of the household.

god bless.

[Baron Von Crowder]

Perhaps he identifies as black.

[Craizie]

BTW, this I will say for certain.. The only reason you should 'hold him down' as mentioned in the first post, is if he is, in fact, physically assaulting someone (you, mom, anyone) aka self-defense. Or destroying property. Other than that, I would not physically touch him or you're likely to go to jail..

BTW, you haven't said (or I missed it) how long have you been in the picture? Again, I think that has a lot to do with what level of involvement you have. If the kid was already older when you showed up, it is going to be difficult for him to take anything you offer as coming from a loving place. You're just going to be the asshole step-dad, no matter what.

I wouldn't take it physical until he did. With that being said, if he was a man, I would have clocked him as soon as he got in my face.

We've dated from close to two years, lived with each other for 8ish months now. I've seen him hanging out with these white trash wigger types at the park a few times, and I think that's where he is getting all this from.... Or he snuck into straight outta compton.

[Craizie]

can you or can you not get "other ho's"??

god bless.

Absolutely. I'm a fucking pussy magnet!

[Tremor14]

can you or can you not get "other ho's"??

god bless.

that's the real question.

[Craizie]

An abundance of hormones at that age will make you forget silly shit like the fact that you weigh 95lbs.

These may have been answered already, but...

Where is the kid's real father, and if he is involved, how is the situation between Mom & Dad? Is it amicable?
What was his mother's reaction to calling her a hoe?
I see that this seems to be isolated to 2 events. Other than that, is he generally a good kid? Good grades? Is he involved in sports?

His real father just got out of jail for CC fraud and theft. When he was arrested it was discovered that he was using Kai ( the kid ) to go in and steal high value shit from stores when he was 10 or so. He has zero involvement with him now, by his fathers choice.

He's generally pretty polite and semi shy. He makes ok grade. He is in mostly AP classes, but doesn't put any effort into it. When he was 12 the school sent him to UNT to be tested because they thought he was " gifted " . Apparently the results put him as Genius level. Personally I have always thought that he was a sociopath. This is the only time I have ever witnessed real emotion from him. Usually he doesn't care about anything, or doesn't show it any ways. He was a sponsored COD player on Xbox for a while. So naturally when he was grounded we would take his xbox away. He didn't care, he would just sleep all day.

[ELVIS]

can you or can you not get "other ho's"??

god bless.

[Chili]

BTW, this I will say for certain.. The only reason you should 'hold him down' as mentioned in the first post, is if he is, in fact, physically assaulting someone (you, mom, anyone) aka self-defense. Or destroying property. Other than that, I would not physically touch him or you're likely to go to jail..

BTW, you haven't said (or I missed it) how long have you been in the picture? Again, I think that has a lot to do with what level of involvement you have. If the kid was already older when you showed up, it is going to be difficult for him to take anything you offer as coming from a loving place. You're just going to be the asshole step-dad, no matter what.

[bcoop]

An abundance of hormones at that age will make you forget silly shit like the fact that you weigh 95lbs.

These may have been answered already, but...

Where is the kid's real father, and if he is involved, how is the situation between Mom & Dad? Is it amicable?
What was his mother's reaction to calling her a hoe?
I see that this seems to be isolated to 2 events. Other than that, is he generally a good kid? Good grades? Is he involved in sports?

[Unicorn Jeff]

I want to leave it be, but damn. He said, and I quote, " The only reason you're here is because you can't get any other hoes". Pretty shitty to call your mother a hoe, and at the same time imply that the only reason I'm with her is because I can't find better.

He went straight up Malibu's most wanted on me. He went from mild mannered polite 15 year old to straight "gangster". Called me out side to fight so he could beat my ass... Wtf.. He's 95lbs.

I'd just laugh it off. Talk to his mom though. And if she's not willing to do shit then... I'd pack my bags.

[Craizie]

Leave it be. If he continues to be a little shithead, then talk to his mom first and try to come up with a solution. My 15 year old step son is beginning to get an attitude here and there. I'm backed by my wife and his dad, which is good.

Now my 12 year old step daughter... god help me.

I want to leave it be, but damn. He said, and I quote, " The only reason you're here is because you can't get any other hoes". Pretty shitty to call your mother a hoe, and at the same time imply that the only reason I'm with her is because I can't find better.

He went straight up Malibu's most wanted on me. He went from mild mannered polite 15 year old to straight "gangster". Called me out side to fight so he could beat my ass... Wtf.. He's 95lbs.

[Unicorn Jeff]

Leave it be. If he continues to be a little shithead, then talk to his mom first and try to come up with a solution. My 15 year old step son is beginning to get an attitude here and there. I'm backed by my wife and his dad, which is good.

Now my 12 year old step daughter... god help me.

[Chili]

Without more details on your relationship with his mother, it's hard to say what I would do. Sounds like you are dating his mom and living with them? If less than a year or so I would probably stay out of issues between mom and son. If you're not willing to commit to her (by marrying her) then your commitment to her son is even more suspect.

If you were / are married to his mom, I think that changes things a bit, but lacking that commitment, you're just the dude his mom is banging.

This is just my opinion, of course, based on my experience being a step-dad, having a son that had a step-dad, and being a step-son twice (I have a step-mom and a step-dad). Looking at it from all of those angles.

Now, if he did physically assault you, then it would be time to call the cops and have him locked up. Won't be long, but will teach him the lesson he needs to learn.