Originally posted by bcoop
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It was less than a year for Lea and I and I have No Ragrets.. Not even one letter. That said, our marriage had truly been over for several years, we just co-habitated for the sake of my son.
Ultimately, giving it time may help ensure stability and all that, but it's really a decision that only you can make, and even then it's somewhat of a gamble for any relationship. I can't count how many times I have heard of couples dating for years, finally get married, then divorce within a couple of years. No amount of time is really going to do anything if you don't know yourself, your girl, and what you want and can tolerate to get it..
Glad to hear your 'friend' has gotten back on the horse and is happy, either way!
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someday texas will allow same sex marriages, just hang tight.Originally posted by ELVIS View Posti kicked my wife out in 2010. been me and my son ever since. i was married for 10yrs. i aint running back into that shit.
god bless."If I asked people what they wanted, they would have said faster horses." - Henry Ford
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That will usually be tough. I had two step-parents, and am a step-parent, so I have seen it from both sides. It makes it even harder when the ex is feeding stuff to the kids about the step-parent. That said, I doubt that would change much regardless of how long a person waits..Originally posted by Big Dad View Posthe is happy and his Penis is .. his kids, not so much
I struggled with which would be better for my son.. Staying with the ex, divorcing and staying single, or remarrying.
Ultimately I decided that he certainly didn't need to see the dysfunctional marriage continue. I thought a lot about that, and chose to show him a happy parent and a positive marital relationship, hoping to improve his relationship chances as an adult. My ex-wife never had a father around (never knew him actually) and that created all sorts of issues in our marriage. Much of it due to her never really seeing a good relationship and mother and father roles, IMO.
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Your friend is a fucking idiot.Originally posted by Big Dad View PostNot me, its a friend ..
He got the big D and within 4 months engaged, 7 months married
Now, his two kids want to live with their mom, he is pissedMagnus, I am your father. You need to ask your mother about a man named Calvin Klein.
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