"Oh, and I have a kid"

[Big A]

I'm 34 myself, and no longer consider having a child as a problem. If we click, and she wants atleast one more, it might work. My step-dad was a great influence in my life from early teens on, so that helps my point of view.

At 22 and in college though, the answer was quite different.

[Treasure Chest]

Could you imagine how wound up I would have been 10 years ago with kids?


The amount of patience I have now is incredible at 32. It makes raising kids a cake walk.

Yeah, I couldn't see you raising kids 10 years ago, but I couldn't see you raising a baby now. The ready made family situation is really your best option. Lol

[Snatch Napkin]

I couldn't imagine having a kid now. I like my sleep way too much, the older I get.

Could you imagine how wound up I would have been 10 years ago with kids?


The amount of patience I have now is incredible at 32. It makes raising kids a cake walk.

[Treasure Chest]

We had William when I was 36. Perfect time I think, I got plenty of patience, finances are in order and he is just a boatload of fun 99% of the time.

Just find you a nice 19 year old and go to work.

I couldn't imagine having a kid now. I like my sleep way too much, the older I get.

We had William when I was 36. Perfect time I think, I got plenty of patience, finances are in order and he is just a boatload of fun 99% of the time.

Just find you a nice 19 year old and go to work.

lmao! My dad was 36 when I was born. We'll see. I don't have my hopes up. I'm going to be traveling too much to even worry about rebuilding a family in the next 2-3 years.

[Broncojohnny]

Good luck. And you might change your mind. I probably would have kids if I would have been with someone who wanted them through the years that it would have been best to have them. At 34 and starting over, by the time I would even consider it I'll be way too old.

We had William when I was 36. Perfect time I think, I got plenty of patience, finances are in order and he is just a boatload of fun 99% of the time.

Just find you a nice 19 year old and go to work.

Shallow much?

I don't think it is shallow at all. It's an expectation going in, like wanting someone who doesn't smoke, likes sports, or whatever. The guy is 22, why would he want a pre-fab family to have to deal with? Hell, I'm 34 and don't want to raise someone elses kid.

[Moose242]

Shallow much?

Yes, very.

I am in a position where I can afford to be shallow... at least right now.

Maybe we can get a group discount?


I need to find a urologist who has no moral objection to performing a vasectomy on a 22 year old.

Good luck. And you might change your mind. I probably would have kids if I would have been with someone who wanted them through the years that it would have been best to have them. At 34 and starting over, by the time I would even consider it I'll be way too old.

[JP135]

You just wasted 20-30 minutes trying to build something

Shallow much?

[Moose242]

Anyone know where I can discount vasectomy?

Maybe we can get a group discount?


I need to find a urologist who has no moral objection to performing a vasectomy on a 22 year old.

and dont forget, dudes cant have kids! you are home free broseph!

god bless.

Anyone know where I can discount vasectomy?

[dmh165638]

Tell her you grew up with a alcoholic mother that was always at the bars and would bring strange men home that would beat and sexually abuse you. That's what attracted her to you was the uncanny resemblance to your mother!

[Mike]

Yep we see your lame attempt at humor now.

Fucker.

[Wicked98Snake]

Fixed?

Yep we see your lame attempt at humor now.