You know why divorce is so expensive?

^^^. THIS guy did it right. And she's half his age, too. Props, Dougles. props.

She's 40?

[bcoop]

<--been married, divorced, single for almost 10 years, dated a good one for over 4 years now, got engaged in December and am getting married in June! Look for your invitations coming shortly! Some could say that I take TOO long to make a decision! LOL!

^^^. THIS guy did it right. And she's half his age, too. Props, Dougles. props.

[Randy]

[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JMrcnqKSbw8[/ame]

[MattB]

And on the other hand, if I said you were gay, you'd start adding up how many cocks you've had in your mouth. Some of us don't need to look at the definitions of words on wikipedia to know what they mean, dipshit.



The lines are cut, the master cylinder was removed, and he is going off the cliff steering with his teeth gripping his billet steering wheel and hands behind his back.

So he's Arnold driving the camo'd K5 Blazer in the beginning of Commando?

[Doug Hatton]

<--been married, divorced, single for almost 10 years, dated a good one for over 4 years now, got engaged in December and am getting married in June! Look for your invitations coming shortly! Some could say that I take TOO long to make a decision! LOL!

[Rick Modena]

^^^


haha!

Not defensive at all Danny. not even for a second........just describing what is going on. When someone says "you are codependent" I look at the definition and see if I relate to it. In some ways, yes...........especially about a year ago. so, I am not defensive or upset over anything, just wanting my side out there.
Kinda like if I were to say Eric is a "textbook closet case homosexual." well, i would hope Eric would do some research on this, see if he feels he is a textbook closet case homosexual, and report his findings to us.

It does not actually mean he is a textbook closet case homosexual......but he might have portrayed some of those tendencies in the past.

And I use that example in a joking manner. I am pretty sure Eric is not homosexual at all(if you are Eric, I am still your friend and it is cool) but one might get the impression he is. I mean, not married, kinda mad at the world, tends to have man crushes on the super hero or intellectual types(the Punisher and Mulder), and really enjoys hanging out and having drinks with other single men..........

lulz

you mad bro? lolololol

And on the other hand, if I said you were gay, you'd start adding up how many cocks you've had in your mouth. Some of us don't need to look at the definitions of words on wikipedia to know what they mean, dipshit.

Jesus Christ, you are getting married now? Again? Pump the god damn brakes man! For God's sake pump the brakes.

The lines are cut, the master cylinder was removed, and he is going off the cliff steering with his teeth gripping his billet steering wheel and hands behind his back.

[VaderTT]

"Your skills are weak, Amateurs!!!"

[Rick Modena]

I studied at the school of Dolomite.

lmao!!!

[Jester]

I studied at the school of Dolomite.

the mineral?
or did you mean "Dolemite" the black pimp with is army of kung fu bitches?

either you are a geologist or you keep your pimp hand strong.

[Doug Hatton]

Metamucil is DELICIOUS!

In the end I'd rather have a few bad relationships under my belt, than end up old and alone, wondering why my balls don't work anymore, and when my next round of metamucil will be delivered by Nancy the bitch of a nurse at Shady Acres.

[Ted]

Ted, I really want to meet you or learn something about you. I have talked to you for 9 fucking years and have absolutely no idea what you look like or what in the hell you do for a living. All I get is a funny comment from time to time that cracks me up..........and that is all.

I want all of Ted. i want to know what makes Ted tick!
A simple short summary of ted will do, though.

I studied at the school of Dolomite.

[Jester]

^^^^oh she mad^^^^

Ted, I really want to meet you or learn something about you. I have talked to you for 9 fucking years and have absolutely no idea what you look like or what in the hell you do for a living. All I get is a funny comment from time to time that cracks me up..........and that is all.

I want all of Ted. i want to know what makes Ted tick!
A simple short summary of ted will do, though.

[Jester]

Jesus Christ, you are getting married now? Again? Pump the god damn brakes man! For God's sake pump the brakes.

brakes? braaaaakes? nope, no idea what that word is.

[Jester]

Since you are responding to Jenn, I can tell you she is happily married.


I can't speak for anyone else, but myself, so I'll give you my take on it. I'm selfish. I'm a whore. Anyone that knows me, can verify both of these things. I don't like having to answer to someone. I like the peace and quiet. I like not being nagged. I like my options to be open. I like banging different sluts. I don't want someone to "share my life with". At least, not at this point in my life. I've got my kids, and my career, and I don't want some woman getting in the way of either. Ive got big goals, and i dont need any more distractions than I currently have. I've had to end what was supposed to be meaningless sex several times since my divorce (and prior to), because the chick got the wrong impression, or got attached, even though I'm as up front and honest about it as I can possibly be.

I will say, I was seeing a girl, not exclusively, that I really did like, and didn't expect it to be that way. But never once did the word love cross my mind, neither did moving in together.

I can assure, my happiness is far from a front. It's not fake, or even close to being fake. I do what I want, when I want, where I want, and that's exactly how I want it. For now at least. At the current time, I don't ever see myself getting married again. Sure, anything is possible. But I'm more than perfectly content at the moment. I share my life with my kids, and my friends. When things get rough, I lean on both. I don't need a woman for that.

As for the amount of time, it's different for everyone. But your timeline, I believe, isn't enough time for anyone. I'd bet dollars to donuts a therapist would say the same, if you talked to one about it.

And to further prove I'm not bitter... I've got nothing to be bitter about. My divorce is 250% my fault. I'm a dick. I'm out of town a lot. When I was in town, I spent more time with friends than I should have. I ignored repeated warning signs that things needed to change. Maybe I did it subconsciously, because I knew the 9-5 and 2.3 kids and a wife wasn't the life for me. Who knows. What I do know, is that my life couldn't possibly be any better right now. Things are perfect. For me, that is.

See, that is excellent that you can admit where it went wrong! That means if you do meet the right woman, you will know how you are and explain it to her. I layed my crazy out on the first date. We had talked for a few weeks prior and when we finally did meet, we didnt put up any fronts. I think that has been a big factor with us so far. No lies or bullshit fronts getting in the way. I said "well, i am certified nucking futs twice over, i suck at killing myself, and I have 2 kids I never get to see and a wife that wishes I was dead.......how bout you?

I am fucking DONE with therapists.....when I got the fuck away from therapists, my life got on track. A therapist sees what the textbooks tell them to see. Sure, there are some remarkable ones out there that really help some people, but I think there are PLENTY of them out there royally fucking people up.