Good divorce attorney ?

[00bolt]

i have lots of emails we send back and forth during the day where she has talked about it and admited it.

[Samhain]

she is one who cheated and wants the divorce. she is one who filed at the court. i have tried everything i know to reconcile and make it work even knowing so. Not sure that effects anything in the decision, but cant hurt me.

Madagascar. That is all.

[majorownage]

Just pretend to try and work it out. Smooth talk her, then ask, "Why did you cheat on me?"

Record her response and make sure she gets no money.

[01vnms4v]

she is one who cheated and wants the divorce. she is one who filed at the court. i have tried everything i know to reconcile and make it work even knowing so. Not sure that effects anything in the decision, but cant hurt me.

You better have 100% proof she did, like vids, pics or txt messages you have a copy of. Then you have a better case.

Just because she was lets say texting to said guy all the time and late at night, she will just say they are friends to judge.

For texting, you have to have proof like. "I can't wait to fuck you again" and among other things.

[BlackGT]

Also, make sure you have put into the decree that you get to claim at least 1 of the kids on your annual tax return. You have to pay taxes on the money that she will get for child support, you can't deduct any of it from your taxable income, and she doesn't have to claim it as income on her taxes... Only fair that you get to claim at least one of the kids...

I did this on my decree and it makes a big difference every year come tax time...

[Sean88gt]

How old are your kids?

Any nudes of this chick?

[FATHERFORD]

Fuck me.... So you have to give up 25% of gross, even post tax - meaning if you make $100k/yr, you have to give her $25k cash, meaning, $32.5k of gross?

<-- staying (happily) married.

Much rather pay a very high quality hit man 25k then pay that shit for years.

[00bolt]

thats why i want to be fair with her, because kids will still have to live with her half the time and i dont want her or them suffering. i know she doesnt make as much, but i just want to agree on something fair and not get dirty. thats why i just wanted to talk to someone and see legally what really are the options

[Roscoe]

she is one who cheated and wants the divorce. she is one who filed at the court. i have tried everything i know to reconcile and make it work even knowing so. Not sure that effects anything in the decision, but cant hurt me.

In that case, find the best lawyer you can to represent you to go after her. He/She won't be cheap, but you'd rather pay now than for x years.

Just remember to always take care of your kids.... sad to have to say it, but you know what I mean...

It doesn't.

[00bolt]

she is one who cheated and wants the divorce. she is one who filed at the court. i have tried everything i know to reconcile and make it work even knowing so. Not sure that effects anything in the decision, but cant hurt me.

[01vnms4v]

Your fucked!

Women are greedy money grubbing whores! They think they deserve every god damn nickel you make and it doesn't matter if they make more or less than you.

[Phoenix]

Why are you getting divorced?

[Roscoe]

I just play one on TV.


25% of your income and you're going to have to cover health care. Even with 50/50, this is what she's entitled to. You or your lawyer will have to get her to agree to anything less than that. Good luck getting a judge to rule on anything other than that, if she won't agree.


And no, it's not 25% of a difference in salary. It's 25% of your gross income. Her income doesn't matter.

Fuck me.... So you have to give up 25% of gross, even post tax - meaning if you make $100k/yr, you have to give her $25k cash, meaning, $32.5k of gross?

<-- staying (happily) married.

[Roscoe]

I'll say my prepaid lawyer service has paid for itself the last 4 years. You may want to look into one of those as well.

uhh....... lol.