How to deal with harassment from a police officer?

[Baron Von Crowder]

oh, so that wasn't you?!?!

No, but it might have been the husband of this chick I was banging.

[ELVIS]

did this officer excel at high school sports?

god bless.

[Gtracer]

tell him you know where he lives.

lmao!!

[bcoop]

did this officer excel at high school sports?

god bless.

Was he voted Who's Who in High School in a hillbilly, sister loving, meth smoking community south of Dallas?

[talisman]

It has everything to do with this conversation IF he used his powers as a LEO to look up information about him and his ex. And let's be honest, it's not outside the realm of shit that some officers have done in the past.

I'm not saying he did or didn't, but it could be reasonable conclusion to come to.

That would never happen.

http://blogs.dallasobserver.com/unfairpark/2013/10/a_steroid-using_arlington_cop.php

Okay, to clear up a few things...

im 34 years old, she is the same.

He did mention he was a police officer, but wasnt dressed in uniform when he showed up at my work.

He may have gotten my phone number from her and may have even known the name of the business I work for, but neither he nor she knew the address of where I worked nor my home address (he hasnt shown up there that I know of, but in a voicemail said he would) and neither of them knew my ex wife's employment for sure as she just started there recently.

He hasnt come out and said he would hurt me or anything like that as far as threatening. But he did say things like you dont want me showing up at your house, etc... and i have multiple times told him to not contact me ever again... then he did, and has taken it to the next level of contacting my ex wife. Who knows who he may go to next...

i told him the same thing, you should be confronting your wife, not me. I was nice enough to tell him everything and he still keeps going and going.

and i know this all sounds childish, im really not trying to stir things up. Im not rubbing it in his face that his wife is like this or whatever... Ive just simply told him, nothing happened and hes lucky it was me and not someone else and to leave me alone.

at the end of the day, i could really care less. but i just dont want some crazy dude showing up at my house with my kids there. Or showing up at my place of employment causing a scene. So im just curious what my options are. I told him I was filing a restraining order, but other than that. Im not really even sure there is anything I can do.

If you've told him multiple times to stop contacting you, and he still is, and threatening to show up to your house, it is time to file a police report. End of story. Do it before he goes full on psycho. Seriously.

did this officer excel at high school sports?

god bless.

lmfao

[Gargamel]

As I side note to this thread, its surprising to me that we've come to the point that if we as males knowingly commit adultery (depending on how you want to define the term), we are totally blameless. It is absolutely OK to go ahead and spread our seed wherever the hell we want to without consequence.

As some others have posted, you mess around with a married woman at your own risk....

Admittedly, this has little to do with the thread at hand, so I'll shut the hell up....

[Baron Von Crowder]

As I side note to this thread, its surprising to me that we've come to the point that if we as males knowingly commit adultery (depending on how you want to define the term), we are totally blameless. It is absolutely OK to go ahead and spread our seed wherever the hell we want to without consequence.

As some others have posted, you mess around with a married woman at your own risk....

Admittedly, this has little to do with the thread at hand, so I'll shut the hell up....

I wouldnt go that far, but in the end, kick the cheating bitch to the curb, and dont go to jail over it.

Then:

A) dont cheat on your ol lady
B) find an ol lady that wont cheat on you.

[mstng86]

so I'll shut the hell up....

good idea

[Trip McNeely]

good idea

LoL

[talisman]

There's no reason to get upset about losing a worthless whore and gaining an eskimo brother. It's win/win.

[GeorgeG.]

I wouldnt go that far, but in the end, kick the cheating bitch to the curb, and dont go to jail over it.

Then:

A) dont cheat on your ol lady
B) find an ol lady that wont cheat on you.

The problem with that is that the boy toy doesn't let the husband in on the little secret so that we can kick them to the curb. It just goes on and on for who knows how long until the husband finds out by accident.

I think I'd prefer the boy toy to contact me and let me know what's up rather than find out on my own months later.... I hate being duped.

[Baron Von Crowder]

There's no reason to get upset about losing a worthless whore and gaining an eskimo brother. It's win/win.

You should have posted that about 2-3 years ago.

I had a chick that I was tired of that I tried to get my friend to nail her. He didnt understand, so I had to break it down for him.

You get laid, I get a good solid reason to dump her ass and it not be my fault.

[Trip McNeely]

"You're giving me the its not you its me?! I invented its not you its me. if its anybody its me!"

[mstng86]

The problem with that is that the boy toy doesn't let the husband in on the little secret so that we can kick them to the curb. It just goes on and on for who knows how long until the husband finds out by accident.

I think I'd prefer the boy toy to contact me and let me know what's up rather than find out on my own months later.... I hate being duped.

you just said boy toy 2 too many times on this board. you shall now be banned for 24 hours.

[Roscoe]

kiss your dog goodbye!

god bless.

solid.