How to deal with harassment from a police officer?

[Chili]

Hey dumbass, his info doesn't make any sense. But I don't expect a "genus" like you to understand that. There are no details and everything is vague. Like everyone mentions. How did the cop know where his ex is? Were they all friends? How did he know he was a cop?

Now Jluv is a dumbass.. Because he disagrees with you?

[Trip McNeely]

Sounds like a classic case of "The thin blue line" syndrome.

[Machx2]

I think it's plausible, but don't know enough either way. Which is why I'm not calling out the husband as a jackbooted thug, nor the OP as a cheater.

You however, are calling out the OP when all that he has done is not respond to your liking. And coincidentally, are on the side of the husband, who happens to be a cop.

I don't think him being a cop has anything to do with this convo if he didn't present himself as one. I NEVER take up for officers when they are on duty her in FTP threads if they are in the wrong. What this man does in his personal life is his business. Everyone always throws out the profession when they are police. We aren't allowed for emotions to get the best of us when wives are cheating ect? But everyone else is? BS

[Machx2]

Now Jluv is a dumbass.. Because he disagrees with you?

No, Jluv has always been a dumbass. Wtf is your problem chili?

[jluv]

Did I compare myself to him? Guess this post needs explanation as well. My post states I am the most conservative officer on the board, behind him. That means he is more conservative than I. Got it?

Lol. Dude, the more you post, the worse you make yourself look.

[BradM]

Lol. Dude, the more you post, the worse you make yourself look.

You need to start writing the poem for this thread.

[Ruffdaddy]

If your wife cheats willingly, you're a fool to blame the other guy and/or attack him. As was already mentioned...she's gonna find some D.

[Chili]

I don't think him being a cop has anything to do with this convo if he didn't present himself as one. I NEVER take up for officers when they are on duty her in FTP threads if they are in the wrong. What this man does in his personal life is his business. Everyone always throws out the profession when they are police. We aren't allowed for emotions to get the best of us when wives are cheating ect? But everyone else is? BS

None of that has anything to do with what I said. We all knew the husband was a cop because we all read the same OP.

I will say, that I do agree that he husband being a cop doesn't have anything to do with this situation, if he was not representing himself as one nor in uniform.

And nothing I said relates to that.

[jluv]

No, Jluv has always been a dumbass. Wtf is your problem chili?

Haha. If someone of clearly lower than average intelligence calls me a dumbass, it's like a double negative. An inside-out compliment, if you will.

[Chili]

No, Jluv has always been a dumbass. Wtf is your problem chili?

Jluv is far from a dumbass, but he does like to argue.

So do I for that matter. Nothing personal intended, I'm just having a conversation.

[racrguy]

I don't think him being a cop has anything to do with this convo if he didn't present himself as one. I NEVER take up for officers when they are on duty her in FTP threads if they are in the wrong. What this man does in his personal life is his business. Everyone always throws out the profession when they are police. We aren't allowed for emotions to get the best of us when wives are cheating ect? But everyone else is? BS

It has everything to do with this conversation IF he used his powers as a LEO to look up information about him and his ex. And let's be honest, it's not outside the realm of shit that some officers have done in the past.

I'm not saying he did or didn't, but it could be reasonable conclusion to come to.

[Machx2]

It has everything to do with this conversation IF he used his powers as a LEO to look up information about him and his ex. And let's be honest, it's not outside the realm of shit that some officers have done in the past.

I'm not saying he did or didn't, but it could be reasonable conclusion to come to.

I agree, it is reasonable. But that is info that you can get from facebook if the exes were friends with each other. Finding out someones wife and ex can be found in many places. That is why I said, if he did use his departments resources then he should be fired. If the OP believes he is being harassed, he needs to call the police where he lives before anything else.

[bcoop]

So you are telling me you believe his story? You honestly think he didn't tap that or didn't initiate it?

Who fucking cares if he did tap it? Who cares if he initiated it? If they fucked, she willingly gave up the pussy. Even if they didn't fuck, sounds to me like she was trying hard to give up the pussy. Let's say he did bang the cop's old lady. The issue is with the woman. The man had nothing to do with it, other than happen to be the hard dick she landed on. If not him, it would have been someone else. And it will be someone else again if they stay together.


There's a whole lot of assumptions being made on both sides. Some women lie about being married. A lot of them, actually. Some women don't wear wedding rings. A lot, actually. Mach - You need a dose of reality. Whether they fucked or not doesn't matter. Who initiated it doesn't matter. The cop in this situation needs to take this up with his wife. Not the guy she's fucking, or the guy he thinks she is fucking, or the guy's ex wife. His problem is with the woman, and the woman alone, and he needs to get a handle on his emotions before he does break the law. Whether he's a cop or not doesn't even matter, unless he did, in fact, show up in uniform or in a squad car to try to intimidate.


I will never understand men who get pissed at other men, when they find out their significant others are whores. Who fucking cares? Where has anger ever gotten anyone? What positive things has jealousy brought to anyone's life? Learn a lesson, learn to spot them, and either protect yourself and your assets, or get in where you fit in! Jesus.

[mustang_revival]

How did he know where you worked?

[Machx2]

Who fucking cares if he did tap it? Who cares if he initiated it? If they fucked, she willingly gave up the pussy. Even if they didn't fuck, sounds to me like she was trying hard to give up the pussy. Let's say he did bang the cop's old lady. The issue is with the woman. The man had nothing to do with it, other than happen to be the hard dick she landed on. If not him, it would have been someone else. And it will be someone else again if they stay together.


There's a whole lot of assumptions being made on both sides. Some women lie about being married. A lot of them, actually. Some women don't wear wedding rings. A lot, actually. Mach - You need a dose of reality. Whether they fucked or not doesn't matter. Who initiated it doesn't matter. The cop in this situation needs to take this up with his wife. Not the guy she's fucking, or the guy he thinks she is fucking, or the guy's ex wife. His problem is with the woman, and the woman alone, and he needs to get a handle on his emotions before he does break the law. Whether he's a cop or not doesn't even matter, unless he did, in fact, show up in uniform or in a squad car to try to intimidate.


I will never understand men who get pissed at other men, when they find out their significant others are whores. Who fucking cares? Where has anger ever gotten anyone? What positive things has jealousy brought to anyone's life? Learn a lesson, learn to spot them, and either protect yourself and your assets, or get in where you fit in! Jesus.

Yes, but if you actually care and love the person you are with, most people want to believe it is the other person initiating it, even if it might not be. He may know his wife is a whore, but wants to believe it is this guy doing it. I understand why someone may want to go after the guy in the situation, because I have seen it time and time again. Nothing good ever comes out of flirting over texts or banging a married chick.