How to deal with harassment from a police officer?

[Rick Modena]

The part that the OP brought this mess on himself and should handle it himself?

Again, how did the OP bring this upon himself? In this day and age, everyone has everyone's cel phone number. If he is telling the truth, the phone records will show her making the calls first and him responding. Fuck that cheating, lying whore, it's obvious that his pimp has is weak and he doesn't have the balls to get into a confrontation with his old lady because she is lying and he wants the truth, thing is, he can't handle the truth, he will believe her in the end and not leave her.

[Machx2]

You seem to be automatically assuming that 1: the OP did, in fact, do something wrong; and 2: the husband is a reasonable human being. You should not be assuming either.

I have assumed everything since his post is vague and he most likely isn't telling the whole truth. That is obvious with his first post.

[Nash B.]

I have assumed everything since his post is vague and he most likely isn't telling the whole truth. That is obvious with his first post.

Ah, guilty (of a non-crime) until proven innocent, right?

[Chili]

Again, how did the OP bring this upon himself? In this day and age, everyone has everyone's cel phone number. If he is telling the truth, the phone records will show her making the calls first and him responding. Fuck that cheating, lying whore, it's obvious that his pimp has is weak and he doesn't have the balls to get into a confrontation with his old lady because she is lying and he wants the truth, thing is, he can't handle the truth, he will believe her in the end and not leave her.

And, even if we did assume the husband was doing everything legit, and really only "wants to talk" why would he go to the Ex-Wife (at her job no less).

That alone tells me that the husband is not reasonable, and that the OP should be concerned. Hell, even IF the OP had banged the dude's wife, why would he go tell the dude's ex-wife?

[Machx2]

Ah, guilty (of a non-crime) until proven innocent, right?

you guys are making the officer guilty without knowing anything besides what the guys vague post was. I don't believe a lick of it.

[ELVIS]

Ah, guilty (of a non-crime) until proven innocent, right?

he is a cop. you know how this works tony

you guys are making the officer guilty without knowing anything besides what the guys vague post was. I don't believe a lick of it.

god bless.

[Chili]

you guys are making the officer guilty without knowing anything besides what the guys vague post was. I don't believe a lick of it.

And the only basis for that assessment is that the husband is a cop, and the OP is not?

And I didn't say guilty, I said potentially.

[Machx2]

And, even if we did assume the husband was doing everything legit, and really only "wants to talk" why would he go to the Ex-Wife (at her job no less).

That alone tells me that the husband is not reasonable, and that the OP should be concerned. Hell, even IF the OP had banged the dude's wife, why would he go tell the dude's ex-wife?

He might have thought they were still married. His wife may have told him who he was married to, not knowing he was actually divorced. He could have gone there to get him in hot water with his old lady, only to find out they are actually divorced?

[BP]

Don't mess around with married women if you can't take an ass whipping.

[BradM]

Be sure to set the ground rules before you start. You don't want to be going at it and find out the finger in your ass belongs to him.

[Rick Modena]

you guys are making the officer guilty without knowing anything besides what the guys vague post was. I don't believe a lick of it.

Matt?

[Machx2]

And the only basis for that assessment is that the husband is a cop, and the OP is not?

And I didn't say guilty, I said potentially.

Not at all. I could care less he is a cop. I have asked questions and the OP isn't answering anyones. So why crucify a guy when the whole story isn't posted?

[Machx2]

Matt?

Thanks, I'll turn into him if you like.

[SS Junk]

Thanks, I'll turn into him if you like.

[Rick Modena]

Don't mess around with married women if you can't take an ass whipping.

I used to think like this a long, long time ago. Til this old black man showed me the light. He said and I quote,
"Why go kill him or beat his ass and go to jail, lose your job for her wrong doing. Unless he raped her, she willingly gave that pussy up to him!"