Sex education in school....How to talk to a 12 yr old ?

[MutherjuggZ]

My dad told me not to screw up and get a girl pregnant and to always use protection basically. Condoms aren't rocket science he should be able to figure out how to put it on himself.

Make it matter of fact like. Y'all with both feel weird but that's part o the humor. What killed me was my mom bitching about how it's wrong and shut. At that age I didn't give a shut what was considered wrong by adults.

Oh but definitely teach him the laws. Only thing not worth screwing around with.

Good stuff, thanks for the input

[MutherjuggZ]

Why not just sit down with him and say, "they are going to be teaching sex education at school, and i wanted you to know that you can come ask me any questions you may have, before or after. Nothing is off limits, and we can talk about anything you like."

Maybe just taking an honest approach will also allow him to feel comfortable coming to you later on in life with major questions/concerns... Like if he ever needs money when he knocks a chick up??

Well I have done that honest approach several times (letting him know I have an open door, no questions asked policy). I always will, I just like to make sure I can make the best possible approach on this new portion of our past conversations.

When I was a teenager I had a friend whose mom left condoms in a table drawer for her older brother. Her mom never checked/counted/asked. She simply made sure the box wasn't empty every so often. This wasn't until he was 17-18, but it's definitely something I have thought of doing when my boys get older. They are NOT going to walk in a store and buy condoms and they definitely ARE going to have sex. One more measure of preventative maintenance on my end could keep me from being a grandparent before I'm 40.

To me the most important thing is safety and no teenage egg fertilization. Not only is the act of having sex an important issue, but also the respect and care for the other person that needs to be addressed too.

[Racewerx]

Live demonstration always work best!

[Baron Von Crowder]

Is that class when girls find out a blow job doesn't have much to do with actually blowing air?

[yellowstang]

Teach him the "hit it and quit it" method of dating.

[80coupe]

Buy him a stack of porn and lock him in his room, he'll figure it out.

lolz!

[Silverback]

yes i do. geor had those short shorts on last night. his vagina kept winking at me.

god bless.

oh that's what you meant when you said you found bacon in your queso in the geocaching thread!

[78X]

I'll bring my herped out junk over and show it to him- that will learn him

[clevelandkid]

You should pull up every nasty image you can find on STDs, then describe in great detail what a bore punch is. After several hours of this - remind him the condoms can greatly reduce the risk of all of them, and that any good hooker will know how to put them with her mouth.

[Ruffdaddy]

Who taught you how to wrap it? What did they say ? Did you have to figure that out for yourself too or what?


Honest questions, I promise....

My dad told me not to screw up and get a girl pregnant and to always use protection basically. Condoms aren't rocket science he should be able to figure out how to put it on himself.

Make it matter of fact like. Y'all with both feel weird but that's part o the humor. What killed me was my mom bitching about how it's wrong and shut. At that age I didn't give a shut what was considered wrong by adults.

Oh but definitely teach him the laws. Only thing not worth screwing around with.

[Mike]

Print out some posts from Lincolnboy, tell him if he has sex before 18 he could end up like that.

[Silverback]

Why not just sit down with him and say, "they are going to be teaching sex education at school, and i wanted you to know that you can come ask me any questions you may have, before or after. Nothing is off limits, and we can talk about anything you like."

Maybe just taking an honest approach will also allow him to feel comfortable coming to you later on in life with major questions/concerns... Like if he ever needs money when he knocks a chick up??

[71chevellejohn]

From the fellas here... What are some ways "MOM" can possibly approach this where he isn't going to get all freaked the fuck out?

Freak him out. Maybe it'll stop him from trying it out for a while. Of course he'll probably develop some weird fetish, but you shouldn't feel responsible when he starts meeting people wearing animal costumes and getting in the pile.

[MutherjuggZ]

yes i do. geor had those short shorts on last night. his vagina kept winking at me.

god bless.

Did you poke at it with all that black you've got in the middle? LOL!

[ELVIS]

Paul still doesn't know what a vagina looks like

yes i do. geor had those short shorts on last night. his vagina kept winking at me.

god bless.