How would you handle this

[Steve]

I agree with Kim on this matter, there is way to teach kids responsiblity without traumatizing them for life.


Secondly, PapaPepper needs to be slapped in his disrespectful mouth for insulting Kim the way he did. She's a veteran of this board, but also someone who didn't deserve that comment.

Their mother isnt going to dig the hole. Im not gonna let that happen.

I have got the soil soft enough now to dig the hole & going to put the dog in the hole & let Peyton & his Mom help throw a few shovels of soil over him & I will do the rest.

Def think the kid has had enough & doesn't need anymore put on his shoulders. He is broken over it & to be honest I feel bad for him seeing him hurt like this.

I just hope he remembers this when he has kids

Well done SEB, what happened, happened. The boy is being harder on himself than any punishment you can give by the reaction he is having. He will always remember his part in this dogs death, it's hard way to learn a lesson, but he will certainly remember it for the rest of his life.

It's obvious there is alot of people on this board who have been abused in their pasts and now passing their hardline of thought of discipline onto their own children, I feel bad for those of you who need do so. There is a way to teach life lessons, responsibility and such with compassion and not having to be a hardlined asshole.


There is also quite a few people here with no kids that really shouldn't be saying anything at all on the matter. Your perspective before having your own kids is always different when you finally have your own. Play the hard ass all you like, it's different when you have your own kids.

[Nash B.]

Yeah, I'm sure your brother is the only reason your dad's holding onto the title to his TA instead of signing it over to you...

[papapepper]

Who name is on the title?

My dad until he dies. My older brother was shitty and screwed him out of 10 thousand for a brand new CBR 1000 so my dad is holding off on the title in case I happen to fuck him over.


Doesn't mean much though.... My first car my grandmas name was on the title although I drove it daily and she never touched it while I payed for it and insurance.

[Grimpala]

Alright from your point of view. You have never touched the car but a few times since the car being yours. The car has been owned for about 32 years by one owner. Maybe a year if that since I've taken the car, again I've only touched it a few times. So technically two owners but I think you can comprehend what I'm getting at.


FWIW, just keep living in the past and bringing old threads back from the dead because you've obviously got nothing better to do with your time. I'll keep derailing every single thread on this forum if that is what you want.

Who name is on the title?

[papapepper]

I got it about 10 minutes ago from this...


Context clues are bolded to help you out.

If you could find a common theme to your sold bargs then I wouldn't have to take everything at face value and I could infer what you are getting at, but with everything changing you just bring it on yourself.

further derailment

Alright from your point of view. You have never touched the car but a few times since the car being yours. The car has been owned for about 32 years by one owner. Maybe a year if that since I've taken the car, again I've only touched it a few times. So technically two owners but I think you can comprehend what I'm getting at.


FWIW, just keep living in the past and bringing old threads back from the dead because you've obviously got nothing better to do with your time. I'll keep derailing every single thread on this forum if that is what you want.

[Leah]

I was castrating bulls at 7. Killing cattle, chickens, other livestock, etc. Nine is plenty old. Much less 11.

This actually explains a lot.

[AdamLX]

Again, none of them are my dads. Where did you find this information. The T/A has one owner guess two now if you count me in but I haven't really screwed with it so technically just one owner I'd say.

I got it about 10 minutes ago from this...

79' T/A 10th ann. 400 t-tops 4-speed manual silver with the bird on the hood ram air.... etc... all 10th ann. badges grey leather.

It is my dads first car.... One owner all original miles. It's like driving a boat.

Context clues are bolded to help you out.

If you could find a common theme to your sold bargs then I wouldn't have to take everything at face value and I could infer what you are getting at, but with everything changing you just bring it on yourself.

further derailment

[stevo]

Where did you find this information.

Hilarity.

Stevo

[papapepper]

You split the rent on a "decent" house, your landlord "got the house".

Four vehicles, of which two were on a farm in a previous post and not running and one of which was your dad's so I don't see how that even matters? Solid barg should be on things you actually own or bought maybe?

EDIT: I guess the TA is your dad's still since you just said it's his first car and one owner.



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You just like to make everything difficult.... Why? The only thing I currently have of my dads is his bass cat pro boat.

The only vehicle on the farm is the 79 ford.... That truck would SUCK in the city or even parked out front of my house. Fucking idiot Adam LX you are. Also registration and tags are not up to date.

Again, none of them are my dads. Where did you find this information. The T/A has one owner guess two now if you count me in but I haven't really screwed with it so technically just one owner I'd say.

Like I said in a previous post which your reading skills owned you. I'm saving up for a house to get out of the situation that I'm in now. Until then I'm perfectly fine where I'm at. No rush but I'm constantly putting money back.

[Rick Modena]

Give him a 15 day suspension w/ NO PAY!

Are you some kind of animal, I agree with the 15 day suspension but cmon, give him PAY!

You didn't ever say he was stiff with his eyes open, take him and mount him to a piece of plywood and he'll be good as new.

lmao!

this country is fucked..........next thing you know these little fags will have to wear a helmet when they ride a bike, oh wait.

lmao, again!

If this was me in this situation, I'd whip his ass. He'd be digging the hole, he'd be burying the dog in the hole with no gloves. And hed know damn well the dog dying was HIS fault. Fuck playing pass the buck. Yes, you both share some responsibility as the child's parents. But if you let him think or one second, that it wasnt his fault, its a wasted opportunity to teach responsiility. And all youllget from that point on is the blame game. That teacher just didnt like me, i forgot, its Jimmy's fault, etc. Shut up, suck it up, an sack up. The kid is about to hit his teenage years. You best teach him while you can. His mother and I would cease our relationship, because she sounds like a lazy irresponsible bitch. I never would have been in this situation to begin with.

Finally, the voice of reason.

[94form2000z]

do NOT put this on that child no matter what.... he's fucking NINE man....

Yes you told him, but ultimately YOU are responsible for everything living and breathing in that home...not a child. YOU should have made sure the dog was being taken care of properly.

I haven't read through all of this but I was thinking this when I came across it.
He is to young for one to expect him to completely do what you asked of him. He would've been reminded repeatedly and I would of likely have watched him do it to make sure it was done.

Either way no judgment here and just another reason I have no pets. Good luck.

[AdamLX]

What kind of dirt am I suppose to have on her? LOL!!! I don't know her. I probably shouldn't have even said that.

I'm doing good for myself. I turn 23 in a month and I've got a decent house I love along with two great dogs that I care for daily and I've got 4 vehicles along with a good job providing me with everything. I'm doing well off for having a criminal record and no education. Keep talking shit though if it makes you happy.

You split the rent on a "decent" house, your landlord "got the house".

Four vehicles, of which two were on a farm in a previous post and not running and one of which was your dad's so I don't see how that even matters? Solid barg should be on things you actually own or bought maybe?

EDIT: I guess the TA is your dad's still since you just said it's his first car and one owner.

79' T/A 10th ann. 400 t-tops 4-speed manual silver with the bird on the hood ram air.... etc... all 10th ann. badges grey leather.

It is my dads first car.... One owner all original miles. It's like driving a boat.

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[papapepper]

Wait what? Did you say 79 TA? One of my top 5 I have ever owned that I restored. You should give it to me and that will help you with that little issue. LOL

79' T/A 10th ann. 400 t-tops 4-speed manual silver with the bird on the hood ram air.... etc... all 10th ann. badges grey leather.

It is my dads first car.... One owner all original miles. It's like driving a boat.

[kingjason]

I guess.... No parents and out the house by 13 years old so that explains the school. Eventually when I've got the money I plan on getting my degree in Mechanical Engineering. You? I'm actually saving up to buy a house now and get out of the situation that I'm in. I could be a lot worse off, IMO. I've got a pretty good head on my shoulders.

The cars do run for what they are intended for.

Fiesta is my daily driver which I commute 5-7 days a week to work.

79 pick up is a farm truck and also my first vehicle that I bought that'll make it thru just about any obstacle you put in front of it! haha.

79 T/A is my dads first car and I haven't decided what I'll do with it yet.

The newer truck I have just to have though.... Guess it's not really being "used" at the moment.

The dirtbikes, 4wheeler & 3wheelers are all used fully.

Wait what? Did you say 79 TA? One of my top 5 I have ever owned that I restored. You should give it to me and that will help you with that little issue. LOL

[papapepper]

I guess some people have a different definition of doing good for themselves. I only had 3 cars at 23, but all of them ran as they were intended to, I had graduated college and was saving up to buy a house. In contrast your life sounds like a complete clusterfuck from what you have posted on here lol.

I guess.... No parents and out the house by 13 years old so that explains the school. Eventually when I've got the money I plan on getting my degree in Mechanical Engineering. You? I'm actually saving up to buy a house now and get out of the situation that I'm in. I could be a lot worse off, IMO. I've got a pretty good head on my shoulders.

The cars do run for what they are intended for.

Fiesta is my daily driver which I commute 5-7 days a week to work.

79 pick up is a farm truck and also my first vehicle that I bought that'll make it thru just about any obstacle you put in front of it! haha.

79 T/A is my dads first car and I haven't decided what I'll do with it yet.

The newer truck I have just to have though.... Guess it's not really being "used" at the moment.

The dirtbikes, 4wheeler & 3wheelers are all used fully.