How to deal with harassment from a police officer?

[Chili]

Then do as suggested. Tell him not to contact you any further and stop answering or interacting with him at all. Then if he continues, contact your local police.

[00bolt]

and i know this all sounds childish, im really not trying to stir things up. Im not rubbing it in his face that his wife is like this or whatever... Ive just simply told him, nothing happened and hes lucky it was me and not someone else and to leave me alone.

at the end of the day, i could really care less. but i just dont want some crazy dude showing up at my house with my kids there. Or showing up at my place of employment causing a scene. So im just curious what my options are. I told him I was filing a restraining order, but other than that. Im not really even sure there is anything I can do.

[ELVIS]

Okay, to clear up a few things...

im 34 years old, she is the same.

He did mention he was a police officer, but wasnt dressed in uniform when he showed up at my work.

He may have gotten my phone number from her and may have even known the name of the business I work for, but neither he nor she knew the address of where I worked nor my home address (he hasnt shown up there that I know of, but in a voicemail said he would) and neither of them knew my ex wife's employment for sure as she just started there recently.

He hasnt come out and said he would hurt me or anything like that as far as threatening. But he did say things like you dont want me showing up at your house, etc... and i have multiple times told him to not contact me ever again... then he did, and has taken it to the next level of contacting my ex wife. Who knows who he may go to next...

i told him the same thing, you should be confronting your wife, not me. I was nice enough to tell him everything and he still keeps going and going.

kiss your dog goodbye!

god bless.

[Country cracker]

Save the voicemails and take it to your local PD, or fuck em in the neck

[mstng86]

Why does he need to tell you his occupation?

I don't go around telling people I have an issue with I am a multimillionaire philanthropist

[JP135]

He did mention he was a police officer, but wasnt dressed in uniform when he showed up at my work.

He may have gotten my phone number from her and may have even known the name of the business I work for, but neither he nor she knew the address of where I worked nor my home address (he hasnt shown up there that I know of, but in a voicemail said he would) and neither of them knew my ex wife's employment for sure as she just started there recently.

He hasnt come out and said he would hurt me or anything like that as far as threatening. But he did say things like you dont want me showing up at your house, etc... and i have multiple times told him to not contact me ever again... then he did, and has taken it to the next level of contacting my ex wife. Who knows who he may go to next...

You have plenty to go on. If you really want this to stop, call IAD/Professional Standards at his dept. Whether you and she did/didn't rub nasty bits, you've got a case.

On the other hand, if he's a nut-job, he might not have anything left to lose if he gets fired/arrested. A man with nothing left to lose can be a problem.

[talisman]

I take a nap and you fuckers go to work. Only on page one.

See, I dont get why guys get all uppity with other guys when they find out their wife is a whore. She's fucking around on you, and it doesnt matter who the guy is, if she wants some dick, she's going to go find some. He needs to dump her ass and not worry about the bullshit.

Bingo.

Suck his dick, that'll teach him!

lmao

[bcoop]

Yep, you need to be saving the voice mails and texts. Not just on your phone, either. Put it on a USB drive.

[JP135]

...I am a multimillionaire philanthropist

You told me you were a fighter pilot, you bastard!!!

[Baron Von Crowder]

Why does he need to tell you his occupation?

I don't go around telling people I have an issue with I am a multimillionaire philanthropist

and I dont come to your job and throw rocks at you while you are mowing.

[46Tbird]

Nothing good ever comes out of flirting over texts or banging a married chick.

Just ask this lil fella!

[Trip McNeely]

Tell him you know where HE lives.

[Nash B.]

Try hitting him.

[mstng86]

and I dont come to your job and throw rocks at you while you are mowing.

oh, so that wasn't you?!?!

[talisman]

That is with the assumption that the "lets meet and talk about this" and "handle it like men" are veiled threats.

Sounds like a former poster on here. OP, what is this cops name?

And, even if we did assume the husband was doing everything legit, and really only "wants to talk" why would he go to the Ex-Wife (at her job no less).

That alone tells me that the husband is not reasonable, and that the OP should be concerned. Hell, even IF the OP had banged the dude's wife, why would he go tell the dude's ex-wife?

Exactly.

So you are telling me you believe his story? You honestly think he didn't tap that or didn't initiate it?

Even if he did, he wasn't breaking the law.