Pretty sure I'm headed through the big D and don't mean Dallas

[bcoop]

Of course she never considered her new reality without you. Most women do not think ahead.

Tell her it doesn't fucking matter if she's sure. You are 100% sure it's over, and she needs to get out.

[CexMashean]

I don't think she ever considered what her new reality would be without me... As I re-read that, I see how cocky that sounds. But, She hasn't moved out cause she can't afford shit is the bottom line. Which is entirely her choice. She can do what the rest of us do and get jobs that pay the fucking bills even though it's not our dream job... I don't think that's ever sunk in with her.

So, with that in mind, why hasn't she had a job already?

[Mysticcobrakilla]

I do not envy your position whatsoever, I've been there and WILL NOT be there again. Take control and don't look back.

[TeeShock]

I don't think she ever considered what her new reality would be without me... As I re-read that, I see how cocky that sounds. But, She hasn't moved out cause she can't afford shit is the bottom line. Which is entirely her choice. She can do what the rest of us do and get jobs that pay the fucking bills even though it's not our dream job... I don't think that's ever sunk in with her.

"Just like that, the journey is over. Depression is finished and you're on your way back to the world of the living, smiling, regular people. The road has been paved with dick-heads, back-stabbers, and pains in the fucking ass. But, memories were made, allies were had, pole-smokers were toppled, and the truth was discovered. And like any journey, if you stay the course long enough, the road might just show you what you need. All you got to do is keep your eyes on the road and you foot on the fucking gas. "

-KP

[mstng86]

Well you keep sticking it to her. Woman can't help but get their feelings involved when it comes to sex. I bet she thinks you still want her and you are just going through the motions because you think thats what she wants.

[bird_dog0347]

Let her tend the rabbits.

Yall have been living together and making divorcing at the same damn time?

I don't think she ever considered what her new reality would be without me... As I re-read that, I see how cocky that sounds. But, She hasn't moved out cause she can't afford shit is the bottom line. Which is entirely her choice. She can do what the rest of us do and get jobs that pay the fucking bills even though it's not our dream job... I don't think that's ever sunk in with her.

[TeeShock]

Let her tend the rabbits.

Yall have been living together and making divorcing at the same damn time?

[bird_dog0347]

wow, that has to be awkward.

It is... I think I need to drink on it before I have any conversations.

[dsrtuckteezy]

wow, that has to be awkward.

[bird_dog0347]

don't talk to her. refuse to meat her and just tell her its over.

lol, I really should refuse to MEAT her, but I'm not getting it anywhere else and even if the divorce does become final, she will still call me DTF, and I may or may not give it up to her depending on my mood and if I want to make her beg.

[mstng86]

Do not meat her!!

[bird_dog0347]

lol I don't have a choice to meet her, I'm not moving or selling the house and she hasn't GTFO yet. It's not that I want to stay together or even have this conversation, I'm just venting to others who I think will share my frame of mind (and it sounds like you do).

[CexMashean]

Her side D must have quit on her. Don't take her back.

[mstng86]

don't talk to her. refuse to meat her and just tell her its over.

[dsrtuckteezy]

cut bait and run man. it says enough that at one point she decided to divorce you and go through the whole process, so why stick around even if she does change her mind? what will happen later down the road?