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That sucks, man. I'm sorry. She's doing you a favor-if she isn't 'sure she wants to be married', then she sure as hell won't put in the work needed for a successful marriage. It doesn't seem like it now, but you'll be better off in the future. It's pretty damn tiring being the only one in the relationship who gives a damn. Sorry you're going through that.
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Always keep your cool, record conversations, pull all your money and move property that is important to you. Try to leave as much emotion outnof it as possible, good luck man.Leave a comment:
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Pretty sure I'm headed through the big D and don't mean Dallas
sooo.... it's a really long goddamn story and I'm not gonna share it all here right now, but my wife of almost 8 years (on 9/23) says she's not sure she wants to stay married. The short-short-extra-short version is that I upheld my end of the bargain and not so much for her.
FUCK... I soooooooooo want to tell the whole story but I've got 2 boys that are my primary focus. Nothing else matters. Either way, my world is upside down.... Let's just say that one day when it's all said and done I'll spill the beans, till then, just trust that I'm looking out for my boys first, me second, and me third.
I dunno why I'm even posting this other than getting advice from those who have been there. Those who have been here know how hard it is to even correctly spell words at this point, those who haven't.......... drink a 1/5th of whiskey and try to type to Yale's acceptance level. I got nothing, and I've literally said about .02% of the story to you guys but this is one of those rare circumstances where I'm the good guy here, and I realize how hard that is to believe.
fawk this sucks, and has for a while
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