Pretty sure I'm headed through the big D and don't mean Dallas

[dblack1]

Been there, keep your head up and don't get into a rebound too quickly.

I recently moved to a state where common law marriage isn't recognized and I will never tie the knot again. Divorce sucks, but it gets better, and it is easier if you have a good reason.

Take care of the kids and keep them happy during this difficult time.

[likeitfast55]

It sucks-------25 years for me. 5 years divorced, life is good.

It gets better every day now that the decision is made.

[IHaveAMustang]

Sorry to hear that. It hurts my soul when I hear of someone's spouse telling the person they married that they no longer love them. It just hurts.

I am at 7.5 years. Hopefully I'll beat the average.

[dee]

Sorry for your luck. It is a rough and shitty road at times.

[Kyle]

I went through an entire situation with my wife and didn't post it on here. It can get sloppy and I would rethink having anything posted on this site about your marriage and or potential divorce.

If you need advice (personal, marriage, or otherwise), seek it from someone that is licensed and has the credentials to back it up.

[Baron Von Crowder]

man, that sucks. You have a good head on your shoulders, keep it up and everything should work out pretty well.

If you need anything hollar.

[Milo]

Sorry to hear about this. A bunch of members here have gone thru this before including me. I don't have any legal advice.....well maybe u can use the lawyer my ex used,He's good. He got me very good...lol
Things will get easier with time. Don't do or say anything crazy where she can use it against you.
Your boys will always have a Daddy...... just stay involved in there lives.

[Roscoe]

Sucks, man - sorry to hear.

[Frank]

I'm sorry you are going through this. You are wise not to share too much and handle it like you are. I hope it works out in the best favor of everyone involved as difficult though it may be.

I'm sorry to hear that man. And just because it is common these days doesn't make it any easier to go though. Take this with a grain of salt, but if she isn't "sure" then maybe you should make up her mind for her. At the least she is being manipulative trying to get you to "win her back" as if you should have to win your wife back, at the worst, well... Get a good look at your assets and put some cash to the side. Talk to Brent about custody if things go fully south. Really sorry to hear it.

[Mike]

Lucky bastard

[Cobraman]

Fuck dude.

[YALE]

Sorry, dude.

[turboford]

Mine will be final any day now. I got the house and no spousal support. Good luck man.

[MattB]

Dang dude! Sorry to hear. Back to Wal Mart for her!!